Hi, I’m Jessi

I’m just a girl sharing her story and learning as I go. I wrote The Story We Share (publishing November 18, 2025) because life after trauma is messy and ordinary and somehow still full of hope. The book tells my side and also includes pages from people I love who lived the aftermath with me. Together, we’re honest about what healing looks like in real life.

I care about memory that doesn’t always behave, faith that can hold both anger and hope, and the small, consistent acts that carry a family forward. By day, I’m a marketing business owner and community builder. I help small teams without marketing support set the plan, build the basics, and reach the right people.

At home, I’m married to Chad, and I’m mom to Lincoln and Aria. We live in Kansas City, Missouri. Give me ocean sounds any day, but real life looks like bleachers, practice schedules, and the occasional stolen moment with wine and charcuterie. My faith guides me; I want my words and work to reflect honesty, kindness, and courage.

A few quick things

  • Name: Jessi Bixler (pronounced JESS-ee BICKS-ler).

  • Book: The Story We Share — hardcover, paperback, and ebook.

  • What I write about: secondary trauma, family, honest conversations at the kitchen table, faith, and continuing on.

  • What I do: marketing strategy and simple, repeatable systems for small businesses and nonprofits; speaking and workshops on trauma awareness and compassionate response.

  • What I believe: stories can make room for healing and for hope.

  • Fun facts: beach person, porch sitter, checklist lover, spearmint gum is the worst.

If you’re new here

  • Media or podcast? Grab photos, bio, and details on the Media page.

  • Book clubs and events? Yes. I have discussion guides and do author chats, in person or virtual.

  • Speaking? I speak with churches, nonprofits, campuses, and community groups about trauma awareness, survivor support, and how to show up with care.

Stay in Touch

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